How To Be A Great Leader People Want To Follow
I often find people wondering how to be a great leader and where to find people who will want to follow you. The easiest answer is often the simplest:
If you start leading, others will start to follow.
People are constantly looking for people to lead them down the path toward their goal. You can be that person, and it’s easier than you might think!
Consider this: when you’re faced with a double-door entry/exit to a building with only 1 door open, what do most people do? They lineup at the open door and wait for their turn to go through!
Now what happens if someone walked up to the second door and opened it to walk through? Suddenly people will move from the first line and follow the new path through the doors. You can be the person opening the second door.
Here are a few key traits that will help make you a great leader:
Humility
Humility is one of the most important traits for anyone wondering how to be a great leader.
The more successful you become, the more humble you need to be. Nobody wants to follow someone who wants to spend their time showing off how great they think they are.
Leave the ego behind and stay grateful for what you’ve accomplished.
Compelling Vision
To be a great leader you need to know where you’re going. Get crystal clear on your vision and be purposeful with your actions.
This vision cannot just include you and your personal goals. It needs to expand to helping others achieve their goals too. This is what will inspire people to want to come along on your journey. They’ll want to be a part of your vision, and hopefully achieve some success for themselves along the way.
Take Responsibility
A great leader always takes responsibility; this is non-negotiable.
Great leaders are the last to take credit for successes, but the first to accept blame for any losses.
Be Consistent
Great leaders will set the tone for others to follow. Show others what’s possible, while remaining accountable.
People will want to attach themselves to a “sure thing”, so they’re more likely to choose to follow you if they know in advance exactly what they can expect.
Be Affirming
As a leader you’ll find it necessary to occasionally deal out criticism to help others reach their goals and potential. It’s important to keep any critiques positive and helpful.
Don’t discourage others, bring out the best in them.
Show You Care
I’ve often heard it said that people don’t care how much you know until the know how much you care. Everyone from Teddy Roosevelt to John C Maxwell have been attributed with coining the phrase, but it’s truth remains.
Make people feel something and they’ll follow you anywhere. I’m reminder of one of the the great pre-battle speeches from the movie Braveheart. His colleagues may not have been convinced prior to the speech, but afterward every single person was willing to follow him, no matter the outcome because they could feel the vision. It became personal for each of them.
Respect
When you’re in a leadership role, respect is not something that’s “earned” or “lost” … respect is a necessity. A great leader will maintain respect for others throughout their relationship.
It’s okay to disagree with and challenge others, but you must respect them.
Communication
Most of us aren’t born with the gift of communication, but this is definitely something we can all learn.
All great leaders invest in themselves and work on their skills. I’ve heard it said that top performers out-read and out-invest average performers at least 10:1. It’s a never-ending journey of personal growth that’ll constantly leave you hungry for more.
The very best leaders also use this communication secret: Point and direct others to find the answers, even if you know the answer yourself.
Why would you do this? As a great leader you never want to put yourself in a position where others cannot outperform you or build an even bigger vision. If you position yourself as the person with all the answers, you’re bottle-necking their growth at your ceiling. Make them resourceful and they’ll thank you for it many times over.
Trust
All great leaders are trustworthy, but they also trust their followers.
If you’re genuine and approach everything with their best interests at heart, your following is bound to not only grow, but create a solid connection that can’t easily be broken.
Always Follow Through
Assuming a leadership role places a lot of responsibility directly on your shoulders. When you’ve provided an expectation for something to be done, it needs to be done when and how it’s expected to be done.
We all know that unexpected circumstances sometimes throw off even the best laid plans. In those instances a great leader will take ownership and communicate updated expectations throughout the process.
Now that you know how to be a great leader, are you ready to step into the role you were always meant to play?
Let me know in the comments below! I’d love to follow your progress.
Resources
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Those are great tips, but one that really struck me was to not only have our own personal goals in mind, but expand that to include others! Wow, great tip!
Glad to hear that Chondra! That’s the best way to keep us on track and adding value that people actually want
Great list of leadership qualities! Good point about being the first to take blame for what didn’t go well, and the last to take credit. All points back to humility. Leaders don’t seek recognition – they’re focused on much bigger goals that help others. Woot!
So true! Humility is the common thread through the entire list of qualities, and not by coincidence
Great stuff Bruce! People are always aspire to be part of a greater picture. By the way, I owe a debt of gratitude to your bride for helping me come up with a brand that matches my vision 🙂
Dr. Lisa
Thanks so much Dr. Lisa! That’s definitely her wheelhouse 🙂
This is a super unique post. I think more content like this is needed in the blogger world. Thank you for your advice!
Thanks so much for that Laina, so glad you dropped by!
Great list of leadership qualities! Thanks for sharing!
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You’re very welcome Sonja, thanks for saying so!
These are wonderful points here! For me, a good leader is someone who listens & who you can trust 🙂
I totally agree with you Jasmin!
Fantastic post!
Thanks a lot RikkiLynn!
Awesome and inspiring post! Definitely also think a great leader has a to have an open-mind while being able to influence others! 🙂
Right-on Sandra, thanks for adding that!
An inspiring post for everything however it would be awesome if people who are already leaders at the moment read your brilliant article and have an idea of “How to be a great leader”.
Nowadays leaders manage people they do not lead.
So true Nitisha. There’s a big difference between someone who’s a leader, and someone who is in a position of management.
Great post, Bruce! I especially agree with your point about humility. I think a lot of people in leadership positions forget about that one.
Thanks for pointing that out Kay … definitely an area some should focus on.
I have to say: I have enjoyed your post! For me, lack of respect and trust make me question leadership capabilities!
You’re totally right about that Sylvester! I’m so glad you enjoyed